without writing takes time, but neither my head nor my intention, nor my self let me do it, without writing this disparagingly, omitting disqualifications being able to keep the heart cold, I am going to try not promise anything ... first thing I would like, is to apologize to my daughter, I'm sorry baby, and all the love we feel for you has been able to save this suffering, sometimes even in your loneliness you doubted how much you want, you tell you more than our lives, you and your brother are the reason for living, the force that makes you start a new day, the center of our universe, but sometimes the potatoes fail, we see no further, we make the big mistake listen to other adults confuse us even more of what we were and this is no excuse for not having seen what was happening before, we're your parents and we should see without seeing and hearing without listening, really sorry, now we only repair the damage and we're are you living? I love you princess, more than I even dreamed, I wish I could go back in time to save this horrible experience. My Princess only has 10 years, came in with four in school where the story unfolds, her father and I chose this school because we wanted the best, although the life of the whole family would turn around, Dad would throw hours at work and as not coming, for all expenses we decided to stay with a family that almost destroys us, but we made up, as we believed that our children spend working hours of 9 am to 5 / 30 pm at a center where they were well attended. Already in the first days of school, his teacher told me, "my mother, have put two roosters in a pen" "or, Lucia has always been a girl with character, has principles and bases in life very clear, as an anecdote to tell you that in four years, came home with a bite on the arm impressive, when I said "" daughter that you have not pulled the hair or you've been kicked to let go? I answered "" I hopped, that hurt me, but how would stick it if was smaller than me? "" I assure you I do not miss much, so you remove the piece, but despite the pain was over, "" not hitting someone smaller "." remember his first birthday with the children in class, was where I met another cock, a girl who average twice what the rest with a breast, but enough for a pair of panties of straw, which to a great effort to show how fine it was, its outward appearance it became very difficult and when would the mouth even worse, only three topics of conversation, car renting, "her husband, she and her daughters run every day with a gravel, "" your chacha, which disqualifies continuously and their work, career official, "" administrative thousand heuristic, if it "a very worthy messing with his big mouth, over the years this has not changed a bit, well, he added another conversation, their complexes with height and his daughter, is this lady is a starved, pan pot, with a number of complex dumps in their daughters, which to me would be indifferent, if not so affected me in my life, good conversations with this being, made me feel I was out of the outside world that surrounded my daughter, did not belong to this class and the worst was that I was ashamed to rub elbows with such people, I am of people, sweat pants, sandals and all this, if possible , nisu brand, thankfully she was the black sheep, other parents were like me, Curritos making a big effort to pay their cole her an outcast kids and I try to make friends with the new, sorry but no colo, my relationship with the other dads has been great, she was fleeing it politely. Meanwhile the character of my daughter soured, like the girl I had not let her play with them, the teacher is telling me kid things, but be the parrot, if the worse, we come to second and my small I get bruised, with bruising all over his body, especially the back, I counted as seven or eight children thrown to the ground, in line to enter the dining room and there the kick, the reason, is angry with the high, the next day showed it to his teacher who dies of grief when lifting the shirt, "" Monica is very small, this is kid things, do not worry I fix "" damn sentence. We spend a third party, not only is the girl's nose, has already been done with his gang of girls, my daughter tells me as if angry with some, the others go and ends up having a confrontation with the rest, we will inform your tutor and again the magic phrase, "" are childish things, I'll see what happens "" I guess he warned caregivers recess and called me, "" good is really what has the girl, but is that she would not shut up, Lucia a victim and executioner "this phrase makes the constant complaints from my daughter, I respond with comments like, why answer? berries will not matter with them and resolved, the character of my daughter was becoming more unbearable, could not stand a joke, come on who came, everything started to shout, which, she saw a lack of support at home, untenable situation at school, by the school team, constant advice, "" we will resolve this, do not talk to the potatoes, you better fix it so that children and adults not to, trust us " by all the insulation is assumed to undergo Lucia girls, but my daughter starts to not be alone, I'm with the fly behind the ear, and we, to fifth, my little decided to hold his birthday at home, I leave the room during the celebration, but my kitchen and living room communicating with a window, despite being closed, no prevents you hear what they say, I get comments like, "" wing, and gives a Benetton shirt, which he hates ......... High """"" I would not hold what you do "" "Lucia to me like you very much, but I do not want whatever you" "My face was burning, I could not and went over, ask:" What that is what will make no aguantaríais? Seriously, I panicked reactions, had the face of fear, "" no, no, nonsense ...."" it was clear they did not think to tell me anything, before the intervention of an adult in this case was closed in band, so I opt to retain it and keep listening. My head began to boil, "" My God, my daughter had doubted, "" when they all left, talk to her, luckily I needed to vent and told her everything, and verse, "had entered a new girl in the school and the situation was unsustainable, raising brought tables, knew how to do things and get away "" I decided to investigate about Bullin or bullying, check out the Internet and could not believe my daughter was harassed profile, its conduct, his behavior is perfectly suited the parameters described to me the screen, I could not breathe for seconds, I felt angry with myself and the world, tears and would not let me see something else, which hot spots duplicates, performing a dance incoherent, that I despaired even more. The other day I had prepared for surprises, as I hope the little boy, I watch if it comes my girl, is in the distance, his face .......... is congested, it is about me and crying, while I count as two children, have kicked his lunchbox and backpack, I try to reassure her, but I find it difficult, both need to breathe deeply, I leave with a friend and go in search of who was her guardian, with power to do something, because it is a large shareholder of the center and its present guardian, just come to the substitution of the owner, does not inspire me any confidence, you'll see that I derived a psychologist, I come to the event to two days and tell him the problem, I speak of mediation and agree. Upon arriving back home to seek information about this and I find that it is counterproductive in the case of several children to one, I get disgusted and in the evening when you pick up look to the tutor "" I refuse to mediation this is getting very far, I will denounce "runs as soul that leads to hell and I said please do not do anything before talking to the psychologist, cites the following day, I decide to wait, to get I get it and another shareholder, director appears and says "" we understand your anger, above all we are parents and we want trasmitirte you and that is making every effort to change this "" we enter a room and tell me measures have been taken, 1 Lucia is assigned a teacher to which you can use to tell what happens at any time, 2 has sounded the alarm for all teachers to be watchful of the situation, 3 º I feel much, but they are doing this out of hand. Here I saw the opportunity to recall the phrase "your daughter is a victim and executioner" "" I speak to your tutor and ask you, my daughter is executioner or defend? Is my daughter starts fights? it is clear that he supports and no, it does not start fights. I leave this conversation greatly strengthened, my daughter did not lie, but the defeat began to invade the thought of having failed. begin to see an improvement in my daughter, mild, but I grabbed at straws, meanwhile take the opportunity to obtain information, get out that there are children who are afraid and therefore do not defend Lucia, I recognize the truth everything she says, every new information, it is a blow to me down a little further into misery, where is looking, not to see this? Suddenly the lights of the teacher decides to make a tutorial with the class, subject, Lucia, my daughter listens for one hour as the humble, the brat and benefit children who are in the spotlight to certify that they are not with Lucia, those who support limited to silent. Another meeting, a psychologist and tutor, is not you describe it, hallucinate the two with the contributions of a brat, but kid who tries to teach children. As a measure, is assigned a support teacher: At this point I can not decide to go over and talk to the pediatrician, explain the situation and have requested a change of heart by normal route, I suggest going to the council of education and no doubt out of the school, do what I say and I get a psychologist at the council, I tell her everything and she tells me the possibility of causing the girl continued in the center, watching the situation, I leave half an hour there and my phone rings, I grant the change of center for the two children and I drift out to victims, we quoted the afternoon, again to tell you all from the beginning, but after seeing the girl, tells me the wonders of its strength, the defense has saved and able to answer, that makes it much easier job, you must focus on changing behaviors acquired, that rejection to jokes and the fear that it's happening again. comforts me, not much but something. In my next meeting with the psychologist, tells me "you were right from the beginning, this is a problem of parents, more than boys, after a meeting with them has only worsened the situation, "no wonder, the new Pope is a character, he does not know any other clothing a blue polo, characteristic cool, uploaded, believed to be the most and what is the dumbest thing has gave birth mother, has a conversation with me, which never stops lying and not only caught him I do not tutor that present and makes me fall in details, which I escape me, while me decide just to me, what your daughter to me, isolate, but it goes frog, let me know and becoming interested in the rest of potatoes by case, do not understand why I have not shouted from the rooftops, despite the support of friends, potatoes, teachers and etc. .. I am defeated, I begin to be aware that this is my daughter who has to leave and I see injustice, I asked my dwarf, mama, how you defend, if someone joins other and they both say, that you have said, something that is a lie? no defense daughter, most crushing, even if it lies, rather, they were expanding the circle, Lucia had friends from another class and to the ignorance with which they were treated, were to lead the boys, this time went wrong, these were not afraid, curiously painted began to appear in the notebooks of some colleagues and one of them could read "I was born the son of a bitch" "with a ebastica painted this is not kid things are potential criminals, the Cole is responsible for making all this go away, that's why if you go to a hustler, you die. I interviewed again with the council and say that the school has admitted everything that I tell them, not expecting it, but they do now if I suggest it out, let them know that the center has to be with the victim, but here's something very clearly and are pure mathematics, my children are two bills, including two with their Brothers Four receipts, it is clear, white or bottle. The psychologist is working and everything is turned upside down, children lose their fear and begin to talk, Lucia leaves strengthened, his friends now are more and I do know, the rumor starts that children leave and are not stupid, if she leaves the next victim will be another, beginning to come feelings of guilt, for not having defended it's late . Just a few days to the end of the school, specifically three, the lights proposed to play Santa, Lucia does not want to participate in the conventional way, the dread out a piece of paper with the names of their executioners, and the conclusion puts it, does not play , off what I said and I decide to talk to the tutor, does not seem right, on the way tells me that something has happened today, but the psychologist told us to talk about nothing else for half an hour and at the end of the day, I remember and I said, mama is important, how important? very important, it tell me, "" Today I asked the eraser a partner and put it in his pants, I said I did not love her and appeared Professor, what happens? nothing that I asked the gum and put it into its parts and no longer love her, then looked at the boy and said, after what you said I did not let her "" I smoke came out of the ears, command to pick and I'm looking for the psychologist, in the hope appears tutor, ask me and the story, my state is no longer the same as always, willing to listen, make a dent in my three days without sleep, just six hours between the three, I am angry and and I make no effort to contain my anger, it appears the kid, with that question, what happens?, mother that happens, I think someone hold me, that he crossed his face, I restrain myself, not as, but I do, with the high tone will tell the story and asked if it is true, as I said, it's time to explode, you know what? you're a brat, good student, there's your title, but does not serve to throw the food to zoo animals, the more to be with children, since when a teacher is a position in favor of one side, the majority, that haunts a girl? you're falling, not to confront them as fighting cocks, you're incompetent and of course to begin your career, you've done with the left foot champion, at this point you are asked to leave, it ignores, in a few minutes understand his attitude, had planned to stay with him, but after the experience, end the substitution period. Among all the fuss the psychologist decides to take the girl I continue in my effort to download all the weight I carry, so I hear that we are leaving with more students, as has been argued that it was us we should stay and while loose ballast, not realizing I fill my pack of self-esteem, we went looking for the small and the psychologist says, it's amazing the ability of this child to reason, their arguments fall under its own weight and indeed, why she has to leave if the victim? easy to answer you, because you told me you felt frustrated professionally and personally, if you will surrender, I say I do, only a smile of pity was his response. Llego la fiesta end of the course and went, this will be the last, between the sound of children and friends, left me little choice, to my surprise did not attend the perpetrators and those who had been teachers of my children came to say goodbye and cheer, the comments of many, I miss, this is a public blog and the last thing would cause serious problems. The children enjoyed as dwarfs, was worth the effort. Finally a story that is roughly six years have been suffering for my girl and a very intense for us, the pope is more calm and that really helped us both, he is making good decisions and I very visceral. sad thing is that no collateral damage, my prince, who will be separated from his friends, even while acknowledging that he does not relish the idea of \u200b\u200bleaving, looks at his sister and says "tata do not worry we're both and play together "" " I'm very proud of them consoles me to think that these monsters they create some parents are adults and become in their own executioners, life takes care of getting the smoke to those who think themselves superior, so I hope this gives you, squarely in the face of their parents, the end of the day are his works. and my little I say it, which is quite a brave, beautiful on the outside, but much more inside, next to no punishment, is the comfort of all that surrounds it, baby stay with the great friends you have made and with these tears no comfort from your friends, to say goodbye to you, you will see how the change is not so good, only we moved away from the bad, you'll still see your teammates, I promised. I love you princess. As a practical joke of fate, sometimes the songs, I bucan and not the other way ....
